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submitted by Anonymous, age x, x
(October 15, 2020 - 1:43 pm)

Thank you to everyone who responded. It is really heartwarming to see that even these random people on the internet care. :)

submitted by No one will know, I need help
(December 29, 2022 - 7:47 pm)

Hi, this is Rora. I have to confess here that I feel really terrible about my AEs.....and I really need advice because I feel like someone stole all their personalities and it's actually someone on the CB ( not saying who). And something about it is making me feel like the CB is not like it was when I first made my AEs. :(

I feel terrible about it, because the someone who I feel like stole my AEs doesn't know and it was probably an accident. Also their AEs are like, everywhere which makes me feel even worse. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings or make anyone feel bad about their AEs, but I just really, really need help with this problem, because it's sucking happiness from the CB for me.

Thanks,

-Rora 

submitted by IDon'tWantToBeMean
(December 29, 2022 - 8:59 pm)

Rora, you are a lovely person, and your creativity and kindness are two factors of why you are lovely. I believe I know who you are speaking of, and agree that it was likely an accident. Nobody on the CB would ever do that on purpose.

Your AEs are original, exciting, and, most importantly, yours. If you feel like someone created AEs that are too similar to yours, it benefits both of you if someone changes their AEs a bit, because that adds originality. I think this is a spot where you can speak up. You are under no obligation to act like it is okay with you if someone has made a replica of your characters. As long as you go about it kindly, this is definitely something that it's okay to be upset about and acknowledge, in my opinion. We need to be able to have conversations on the CB where we can be honest and open about our feelings and come to some agreement, because that's how the real world works, and real friends value each other's emotions and thoughts, even if we aren't always in sync. We don't have to be mean about it, but it's okay to say something when someone is causing you discomfort and sadness.

This is just my opinion, of course, but I wanted you to know your feelings are valid and reasonable.

submitted by Periwinkle, age Pi, Somewhere in the stars
(December 29, 2022 - 9:40 pm)

In my opinion, your AEs are very original. But AEs are made to reflect aspects of one's personality- if you share personality traits that someone else may also have, your AEs are bound to be similar. It's likely that this person's AEs are not copies of your own, they just have a similar personality to you, which is great and gives you a reason to be friends! Lots of people have similar AEs as well, like how my AE, Ever, is very similar to any other outgoing AE. Meg is also similar to any antisocial/grumpy AE. This doesn't mean I copied though, I just have a similar extroverted side to others and a similar attitude towards things I don't want to do :)

No AEs should be direct copies of others, though! If you feel that your AEs have been directly copied, talk to the CBer! Otherwise, you can embrace the similarities and have the AEs you feel are similar be friend- I promise you, since everyone's different, and everyone's personality reflects differently through AEs, you'll find differences and beauty in their friendship!

Its completely valid to feel the way you do. Don't let it keep you down!! If it keeps bothering you, even if the AEs are only similar, talk to the CBer and see if they can tweak their AEs. I hope this helps! 

submitted by Red Starlight
(December 29, 2022 - 11:45 pm)

do you ever feel like you're too strange and different and shy to ever truly connect to anybody else?

submitted by that's classified
(December 29, 2022 - 11:44 pm)

Sadly, yes, all the time...

submitted by Echo Hallowswift
(December 30, 2022 - 2:38 pm)

unfortunate <3

submitted by that's classified
(December 30, 2022 - 10:21 pm)

Alas, that's the second biggest problem in my life.

submitted by Mysterious CBer
(December 31, 2022 - 6:38 pm)

yes. every day.

submitted by Tsuki the Skywolf
(January 5, 2023 - 8:31 am)

I just want to thank you two, Starli and Peri, for understanding. You've definitely made me feel a lot better about my AEs. I'm going to try to tell the person on here and talk a little bit about it. I already let her know, but it wouldn't hurt to come back to the matter again. 

submitted by Rora@all who replied
(December 30, 2022 - 1:21 pm)

Hi Rora, it’s Echo.

I’m pretty sure the person you’re talking about is me. I’m really sorry if I ever made you feel the way I made you feel. It was never my intention, and I’m really sorry. It pains me to say this but is I’m going to be retiring all my AEs. Again, sorry.

-Echo Hallowswift.

submitted by @RORA
(December 30, 2022 - 2:35 pm)

Hey Echo-

I just wanna say that I truly appreciate you for acknowledging Rora's feelings and attempting to do something to make her feel better, but there's no need to completely stop having AEs. Maybe just try making new ones? I can help you pick out original names and give them specific features that make them feel personal to you, if you like. AEs are fun, and you don't have to miss out on them as long as you make them your own. Let me know if you would like to give that a try, I'm happy to help.

submitted by Peri@Echo, age Pi, Oh, it’s getting cold
(December 30, 2022 - 5:53 pm)

Hi,

That would be wonderful. I guess I'll just create a new thread for this in Down To Earth.

Thanks so much for offering. 

Echo 

submitted by Echo@Peri
(December 30, 2022 - 6:15 pm)

I never meant to cause any problems. I’m sorry.

submitted by Echo Hallowswift
(December 30, 2022 - 2:37 pm)

I can't stop with simultaneous mindsets of "feelings are confusing and bad no romance i don't do romance I am an unfeeling rock" and also at the same dang time "everyone is so pretty and it's annoying that I'm barely exaggerating; oh they're cool I like them oh no they're a jerk never mind noooh stop thinking about this person who you've literally never liked before this moment oh look their eyes are blue and also brown at the same time how does that work"

Combine that with "I think I like everybody which I think is pan but I also don't like labels but wait I'm supposed to not like anybody because I am a rock"

and you have a mess woohoo

 

 

submitted by anonymity
(December 31, 2022 - 12:24 am)