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Mediators (INFP) meet here!
I was inspired by CBreviver's thread for logicians to create this thread. I am an INFP-A (used to be INFJ-A, but now an INFP, personality type is not determined by genetics). We can talk about how we see the world from our INFP eyes.
For example, I do NOT like parties. Once I went to a Bar Mitzvah party that was advertised to my family as "low-key", and boy was it loud. I could not bear it, especially how the photographer kept going around and taking pictures of people WITHOUT EVEN ASKING THEM!!! I cannot believe this. (I think they also, again without asking me, took a picture of me). I am SO grateful for the law that prohibits posting pictures of minors publicly without their guardian's consent. But, also, the music was extremely loud and I think it was either heavy metal (my absolute LEAST favorite music genre) or rock music tuned up to max volume on a really loud speaker. That may be my introverted part.
submitted by Golden Lion Tamarin, age 9
(January 30, 2023 - 1:56 pm)
(January 30, 2023 - 1:56 pm)
Cool, same-day posting! Thanks, admins.
(January 30, 2023 - 6:34 pm)
I'm a mediator! INFP-T. I just took one of those personality tests to make sure I was remembering right and I was. here's the results:
89% introverted
69% intuituve
67% feeling
72% prospecting
83% turbulent
honestly this describes me really well! I'm not really sure what things are mediator-ish things. I know we're supposed to be really curious and artistic but that's pretty much the extent of my knowledge on this personality type.
(January 30, 2023 - 9:04 pm)
Here's a short description from a personality type website:
Although they may seem quiet or unassuming, Mediators (INFPs) have vibrant, passionate inner lives. Creative and imaginative, they happily lose themselves in daydreams, inventing all sorts of stories and conversations in their minds. These personalities are known for their sensitivity – Mediators can have profound emotional responses to music, art, nature, and the people around them.
Idealistic and empathetic, Mediators long for deep, soulful relationships, and they feel called to help others. But because this personality type makes up such a small portion of the population, Mediators may sometimes feel lonely or invisible, adrift in a world that doesn’t seem to appreciate the traits that make them unique.
The Gift of Empathy
Mediators share a sincere curiosity about the depths of human nature. Introspective to the core, they’re exquisitely attuned to their own thoughts and feelings, but they yearn to understand the people around them as well. Mediators are compassionate and nonjudgmental, always willing to hear another person’s story. When someone opens up to them or turns to them for comfort, they feel honored to listen and be of help.
Empathy is among this personality type’s greatest gifts, but at times it can be a liability. The troubles of the world weigh heavily on Mediators’ shoulders, and these personalities can be vulnerable to internalizing other people’s negative moods or mindsets. Unless they learn to set boundaries, Mediators may feel overwhelmed by just how many wrongs there are that need to be set right.
Speaking Their Truth
Few things make Mediators more uneasy than pretending to be someone they aren’t. With their sensitivity and their commitment to authenticity, people with this personality type tend to crave opportunities for creative self-expression. It comes as no surprise, then, that many famous Mediators are poets, writers, actors, and artists. They can’t help but muse about the meaning and purpose of life, dreaming up all sorts of stories, ideas, and possibilities along the way.
Through these imaginative landscapes, Mediators can explore their own inner nature as well as their place in the world. While this is a beautiful trait, these personalities sometimes show a tendency to daydream and fantasize rather than take action. To avoid feeling frustrated, unfulfilled, or incapable, Mediators need to make sure that they take steps to turn their dreams and ideas into reality.
In Search of a Calling
People with this personality type tend to feel directionless or stuck until they connect with a sense of purpose for their lives. For many Mediators, this purpose has something to do with uplifting others and their ability to feel other people’s suffering as if it were their own. While Mediators want to help everyone, they need to focus their energy and efforts – otherwise, they can end up exhausted.
Fortunately, like flowers in the spring, Mediators’ creativity and idealism can bloom even after the darkest of seasons. Although they know the world will never be perfect, Mediators still care about making it better however they can. This quiet belief in doing the right thing may explain why these personalities so often inspire compassion, kindness, and beauty wherever they go.
(January 31, 2023 - 6:27 pm)
Heyo, I'm INFP-T as well! :D
(February 2, 2023 - 8:07 pm)
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