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So, I might

So, I might need some help with my crush...

So, I saw him yesterday, right? Well, after YG, he and his brother rode home with me, 'cause they both live RIGHT NEAR US.

I'm kinda debatin' whether he likes me or not. I mean, everyone's like "Oh, you'll know if a boy likes you". HOW THO?!! I've NEVER had a boy near my age like me before!! My mom said "don't ask him if he likes you", but my BFF is like "you should ask him if he likes you", but I don't wanna ruin the friendship him and I have, and I'm so confused! What do I do?!! Please help!!

submitted by Mmm I'm going anon
(September 28, 2023 - 11:16 am)

Sorry haven't answered, I've been debating what to tell you too cuz what I do is I just ignore everything and let things go on as they do and wait it out but who knows if that's what you should do so just wishing you the best of luck and hope someone else can help! <3

btw, for all the non-help this gives, I don't think there's a right answer for situations like this 

submitted by CelineBurning Bright, age As Needed, sorry I can’t help more
(September 30, 2023 - 5:04 pm)

Ok, so, update...

I was texting with my BFF the other say, and she said that my crush may not have any interest in me, meanin' that he might not like me.

But if he DOES like me, he's hidin' it so, so well.

I still need crush help, I'm not gonna be able to see him until later this month, but I'm so stressed. What do I do to get him to like me if he doesn't already? What should I wear? What kind of makeup should I wear?!

submitted by Mmm I'm going anon
(October 3, 2023 - 1:51 pm)

Ooh. Tough one. 

I haven't had a situation quite like yrs, but I'll try to help you as best I can. What I do know for certain, is that when someone likes you, it can be real hard to tell. When I was just crushing on my bf, I was sooo worried he didn't like me because I always heard that people were obvious when they liked you. They really (sometimes) aren't tho. What you have to do is find the little things. Do they text you often? Do they smile at you a lot? Do they always laugh at your jokes? etc. etc. etc. Those cues are often hard to see at first, but you'll for sure see them when you catch on. Good luck, hope I was of some help!!!

submitted by Lord of the shadows, he/they
(October 3, 2023 - 8:37 pm)

I agree here. Watching for the small things is always a good way to get an idea on how they might think about you. Additionally, if you have a feeling that they like you, then don't be afraid to trust your gut. I know that it is easier said than done though. In summary, if you sense that their might be something there then there probably is. All I can say is to follow your intuition, feel out the situations, and observe his actions around you. Hope that helps <3

submitted by Neverseen , age Umpteen , Traveling the Triangulum
(October 4, 2023 - 5:22 pm)

Okay, so I think I know who you are. (On the CB, of course! Not IRL.)

One tip--DO NOT ask him. It could potentially make things awkward between you two, and that's never good. I think my friend, Q, likes me--but I haven't and probably won't ask him, because I think he suspects that I know, meaning things are already a bit awkward (Actually, not so much anymore! It's actually getting better). Anyway, to repeat my advice more clearly: don't ask him, it could make things terribly awkward. He must value your friendship, and clearly you value his. So don't make it awkward! If he admits it to you, then THAT'S GREAT, but my advice is to not ask him.

I know it seems painful to wait. I've had a crush admit to me that they liked me when I was younger...and then they...turned out to say some weird and sort-of disgusting stuff. (I think they're better now, as we're more...friendly, but I don't like him anymore) I'm not saying that your crush is like that at all! In fact, I'm sure he's an incredible guy that only wants the best for you (though that's for you to decide). Good luck!

We love you so much, *insert your potential name here*!

I hope this helps!

-Endless_Parodies 

submitted by Endless_Parodies
(October 4, 2023 - 7:13 pm)