Gender Neutral Titles

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Gender Neutral Titles

Gender Neutral Titles and Misc Words


Here are specific ones that I enjoy, please add yours as well! :)


Mr/Ms: Mx (mix or mux), Msr (mizzer), Mt/Mm (mistrum), Ind, Div

Pronouns that are not they/them: xe/xem/xer (usually zee zem zer), e/en/es, ae/aer, e/em/eir, myr/myrself, it/its

Sir/Ma'am: Citizen, Friend, Mir

Parent: Per/par, Ren, Zither, Nini, Bibi, Cennend/Cenn

Aunt/Uncle: Pibling, Entle, Cousin, Avaunt, Ommer, Auncle (ankle)

Niece/Nephew: Nieph/Neiph (nee eff), Niephling (nee eff ling OR neef ling), Nibling, Chibling

Girl/boy: kid, enby, neut/newt, null

Girl/boy friend: datefriend, feyfriend, theyfriend, enbyfriend 


Don't forget to ask people what they'd like to be called first! :) 

submitted by Gallium, age untold, it/its
(January 24, 2024 - 11:04 am)

This is interesting! It definitely gives me more of an idea of how to think or speak of people like that whenever I meet someone who is trans or whatnot. I was actually wondering what you called a girl/boy friend the other day! I assumed theyfriend, but the others fit too :)

submitted by Hawkstar, age Not today, today we will survive
(January 24, 2024 - 8:08 pm)
submitted by TOPstar
(January 24, 2024 - 8:52 pm)

as the specific sort of enby who doesn't pay terrible attention to any of this stuff, it is very interesting! for me, it's always been more disinterest with gendered roles than any real aversion to them. i've always had interest mainly in in it/its or they/them pronouns. 

all that said, i would absolutely LOSE MY MIND if someone called me "citizen." AWESOME.

and hey, gallium, i'm glad you're doing this! 

submitted by Lord Entropy
(January 24, 2024 - 9:10 pm)

Yeah, me too. If I had to choose a label, I guess it would be agender, since I don't have any inclination to any of them really. But also I kind of don't care that much.


Thank you1 :) 

submitted by Gallium, age untold, it/its
(January 24, 2024 - 9:49 pm)

For girl/boy friend, "significant other" works, too (aaaand this just makes me thing of "significant annoyance" thing w/Solangelo in the Hidden Oracle)

submitted by Rainbow, Holding up the sky
(January 24, 2024 - 9:11 pm)

XD I thought of that the other day too!

submitted by Hawkstar, age Not today, today we will survive
(January 25, 2024 - 9:30 am)

Lord/Lady - Liege

King/Queen - Ruler, monarch, majesty, etc. also Keen or Quing.

Prince/princess - Princex, heir

Emperor/empress - Emperex



submitted by Scuttles
(January 25, 2024 - 12:40 pm)

I have a better idea for "sir/maam": Comrade.

submitted by Sinusoidal Polyglot
(January 25, 2024 - 1:50 pm)

i mean, comrade sounds cool. i could see myself enjoying being called that. some people might think of different connotations though lol

submitted by Lord Entropy
(January 25, 2024 - 8:22 pm)

Great among friends/family, perhaps not with strangers lol

submitted by Gallium, age untold, it/its
(January 29, 2024 - 3:20 pm)

GALLIUM HIII!! haven't seen you around lately! how've you been? :D

those are all great! i write a lot of fantasy with genderqueer characters, and it's sometimes kind of hard to come up with gender neutral terms! it's crazy how much gendered terms have been embedded into our society.

here's some more~

king/queen: monarch, ruler, sovereign, quing, their/other possessive pronoun highness/majesty

princess/prince: i've used princex and heir like Scuttles said, and also their/other possessive pronoun highness/majesty

girl/boyfriend: partner & significant other also work!

god/goddess: goddex, deity

lord/lady/duke/dutchess/etc: liege, sovereign, noble

sir/ma'am: i've also heard captain~

submitted by pangolin, age she/they, Outskirts of the Galaxy
(January 25, 2024 - 8:09 pm)

Been pretty good, kind of caught up in schoolwork. How about you?

submitted by Gallium, age untold, it/its
(January 29, 2024 - 3:20 pm)