GIRL DISCRIMINATION.

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GIRL DISCRIMINATION.

GIRL DISCRIMINATION.

So, I need to rant this somewhere. Seriously, this has been in my mind for a bit.

WHY DOES EVERYONE I MEET THINK THAT I'M NOT REALLY SMART? Okay, I make my mistakes, but whenever I point something out or try to join a conversation with boys, they either ignore me or tell me to go away. Sometimes I REALLY wish I was a boy. Then I wouldn't have to pretend to be someone else.

I do this camp called 'tech camp', where you get to learn how to do...well... techy stuff. The camp is divided into classes, and the one I'm taking right now (where we learn how to use a 3D program called unreal) I'm the only girl. And whenever I try to be friendly with the boys, they always gradually move away.

Anyone else want to rant? Any help? 

 

submitted by Danie
(August 12, 2015 - 7:17 pm)

Yes, yes, YES! I get exactly what you mean. There was a boy at my summer camp, and he kept taunting me and three of my other friends and saying, "Boys are smarter than girls! I'm as smart as all four of you put together." After that we bombarded him with questions he had no idea how to answer. Go taunt someone else next time, annoying kid! And you are so, deffinetly smart, Danie! You're one of the smartest people I know! So forget about anything those boys said. It just goes to show that they are indeed not as smart as you. So don't let it bug you.

submitted by Booksy Owly
(August 12, 2015 - 10:59 pm)

Topy top top. Up you go!

submitted by Topsy Owly
(August 12, 2015 - 11:00 pm)

OMG I CAN'T STAND THAT!! Except for me it's with sports. I'm usually the only girl playing soccer, and luckily I have a few friends that are boys, but people say I shouldn't play because I'm a girl. It's so annoying

submitted by Luna, age 11, Everywhere
(August 20, 2015 - 10:41 am)

OH YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sometimes boys can be a little rude or mean because they don't get to know me yet. Or sometimes, they PRETEND to know me. I HATE when this happens. I too also sometimes wish that I was a boy. As girls, we have to show everyone what we can do, and be ourselves. Girls ARE smart, we just need to show it. @Danie: You are beautiful, talented, and smart, don't let anyone tell you otherwise! (I hope this doesn't offend any boys. If so, I'm sorry to offend them.)

submitted by Joan B. of Arc, age 13, Camelot
(August 20, 2015 - 4:49 pm)

Yes. Please. Ranting!!!

I am considered the "smart" person usually. I sit at my desk and do work quietly, quickly, and mostly correct while boiling with boredom annoyance anger on the inside. But they don't know that. And because I am a girl, I can't participate well in gym class apparently. It's not fair.

We play this game called Crack-Up Dodgeball, where there are three balls and every man for him- ahem- her- self, and I always crush people. I hit them hard, fast, and dodge balls like there is no tomorrow. And I can run. Yes, I can run. But do people care? No. I'm a girl, I'm smart, I'm okay at sports and I am not exactly pretty, but I'm happy with the way I look. What does this make me? A freak.

Okay.

If people just let me talk to them and hear me out they start to understand that I am a lot different than I appear.

And a lot of the time, boys are WAY more interesting than girls. I don't mean to be stereotypical,  but most girls I know spend all there time talking about hair and makeup and clothes and boys in a different way. 

I love getting dirty, and running, and playing, and programming (though I'm pretty bad at it) and I'm sort of tech-savvy. It's unfair the way girls are treated.

I wish I were a boy sometimes.

There is a camp that I go to and we play a game called Ga-Ga. I'm aggressive, but I fall a lot and hurt myself because I'm working so hard. The boys walk over to me, "Are you okay?" and "Here, let me help you." and "Please don't cry."

Then, I straighten up, take the ball, and crush them.

I am a feminist and proud of it. 

submitted by S.E.
(August 20, 2015 - 8:08 pm)

The only time I really have trouble with stuff like that is with sports. I feel like people always expect me to be a bad sports player, especially beacause I like to wear skirts (Which I play in just fine.)

In gym class, the boys are considered by themselves to be better than the girls (this might be helped by the fact that there are twice as many boys as girls). Sure, some of the girls aren't very good, but there are some of us who are total champs at some games. When we play hockey, there are three boys who order everyone around, decide what position everyone plays, and tells people what to do. They also almost never pass to you, and try to take the puck from you when they are on your team. So that they can win, because aparantly, boys are so much better. Maybe we'd be better if we were given more chances!

And when I was playing soccer 3 on 2 last week, they were trying to teach me how to kick. That was OK, but I got really mad when a boy who is good at soccer said that he was "the worst of the boys", implying that I was worse than any boy. Infuriating!

If I gave one of these sporty boys a microphone and told them to sing, would they sound as good as I do? No! But then again, singing is a girls thing. Hmph. I suppose everyone is good at something different, but that doesn't neccasarily mean that boys are good at sports. There is a boy I know who is an amazing artist. Well, his drawings are not good, but his crafts are great. And when asked if he would rather do sports or art, he said art. Which is really nice, because he wasn't acting like those boys who think that the only way to have fun is by kicking around a ball! 

It's fun, but it isn't just a boy's thing. 

submitted by Over the Rainbow
(August 21, 2015 - 6:22 am)

Ahem.

Len Kagamine

KAITO

Ozzy Osbourne

All male singers. (Well, okay, Len and Kaito are male voicebanks but SAME THING.) 

Also, listen to, say, Mozart's Requiem. Male singers abound.  

submitted by Somebody, age Who cares, Various places
(August 22, 2015 - 9:55 am)

Many male singers are amazing. The boys in my class are mostly horrible. Some of the best singers in the world are male. I'm just talking about fifteen boys who mostly happen to be terrible singers.

submitted by OtR
(August 24, 2015 - 5:44 am)

Don't let them bother you. If they're too immature to get over the fact of your gender, if they think they're smarter than you because they can pee standing up, they don't deserve your friendship, much less your acknowledgement of their existence. I've usually had an advantage in these sorts of situations, knowing one of the guys ahead of time or something. Still, if there's a funny conversation and you have a comment, give it. They might be unfriendly at first, maybe forever, but if you don't interact with them, you'll never know. Be positive. Negativity doesn't make anyone want to talk to anyone. (And if they're negative, be the "better man." Don't let them ruin this cool experience for you!)

submitted by Theo W., age 14
(August 21, 2015 - 8:49 am)

YES! Whenever I talk to someone about sports I play, they always suppose I play softball. I play baseball, people, and my team won the championship! I find it really annoying when people think that softball is for girls and baseball for boys. We can play whichever one we want!

There's also the idea that girls don't like to be called "guys". Last year, I was the only girl on my baseball team, and the assistant coach kept saying, "All right, guys.... and girl," like I wasn't called a guy every day by my friends. "Guys", in that term, is mostly just meaning "group", nothing else. 

submitted by St.Owl, age Recarnated, Everywhere
(August 21, 2015 - 9:21 am)

Dude, most boys around the age of the average CBer are still immature. Sure, there's those two kinds of boys who are pretty nice and like to read or want to be a Christian when they grow up. But the rest of the boys love to tease and insult you. They're annoying and won't shut up. All they care about are sports, video games, and social media. And the social media is about sports. Like my parents say, you can't trust 'em until their 19. Or older. Shake it off! They're boys.

submitted by Ellie, age 12, Place of boys
(August 21, 2015 - 10:58 am)

*Christian singer

submitted by Ellie, age 12, Place of correction
(August 22, 2015 - 8:30 am)

*is about sports and video games

submitted by Ellie, age 12, Place of correction
(August 22, 2015 - 8:32 am)

THAT IS ONE OF THE FALSEST (not a word) THINGS I HAVE EVER HEARD. Not a single boy in my class is like that! A lot of them are good friends with me! Are you calling them annoying and dumb? It is my experience that most boys are nice once you get to know them. They don't tease and insult you. Actually girls tease me way more than boys do. By the way I'm a girl.

submitted by Applejaguar, age almost10, New York
(August 25, 2015 - 8:24 am)

Well I'm glad you have gentlemen in your school. And said there is a group of boys that are kind and cool.  Just I unfortunately don't have as many good boys as you do.

submitted by Ellie, age 12, Place of boys
(August 25, 2015 - 4:36 pm)