Administrators,

Chatterbox: Down to Earth

Administrators,

Administrators,

Why have you stopped posting my posts? I don't know if I already sent this question in or not, but it hasn't been answered. Please do answer as soon as you can.

 

Dear Mary Jo,

We haven't stopped posting your comments, and no one is submitting inappropriate comments under your name. However, we are receiving an increasing number of posts from everybuggy on religious topics, and it is an area in which everyone needs to exercise extra sensitivity.

Religion is important to most people in the world, and many stories in Cricket have to do with different religious traditions. We've allowed kids in the Letterbox in the magazine, and also on this site, to mention their religion and the traditions they follow, so that other kids can get to know and understand them a little better and perhaps see similarities and differences to themselves. Cricket, which is mostly about literature, stories, and history, does not venture into points of theology or religious argumentation.

We try in the Chatterbox to follow in that spirit of fostering a sense of community and understanding. The Chatterbox is somewhat different from the magazine because it encourages kids to reply back and forth to each other. Some topics, such as global warming and, for some reason, the Twilight books, generate a lot of controversy and go in surprising directions. Passionate discussions are fine and good by us, although we do occasionally reject repetitive comments on the same topic when the person has already had plenty to say, or if the discussion is starting to go too far and developing too much of an edge. You kids, however, also monitor each other to some degree, and in general are very careful to be nice.

Religious discussions on the Chatterbox should follow in the tradition of the magazine. We've allowed somewhat more leeway on the Chatterbox for personal expressions of belief and mutual education about different religions. We've occasionally declined to post comments from a variety of people--please note, that I'm not talking about you in particular here, but addressing everybuggy--where they attempt to argue a fine point of theology, or take the tone that theirs is the one true religion and that other kids are just wrong to believe anything else, or offer negative psychological reasons why some kids aren't religious--e.g., they are afraid to face their sinful natures. The Chatterbox is just not the place for that kind of exchange.

We try to be fair in letting kids have their say. We're also protective of the Cricket community that each person knows that, on this site, everybuggy is allowed to have his or her own way of thinking. Making sure that everybuggy's opinions are treated with respect requires us to make a number of judgment calls, especially when it comes to religion.

Everybuggy is so positive and cooperative on the Cricket site. It's really great, and we just want to help you maintain that.

 

--Admin 

submitted by Mary Jo, age 13, Georgia
(April 30, 2009 - 1:10 pm)

Thank you, Admin. I think the religion thread was getting a little out-of-hand. Although I can't seem to stop posting there. I'm addicted, I guess.

submitted by Lena G, age 11
(April 30, 2009 - 5:35 pm)

I don't know why exactly.

submitted by Lena G, age 11
(May 1, 2009 - 8:13 am)

I like Mary Jo's comments on religion. I find them very positive and uplifting. *nod*

submitted by Mary W., age 11.25, NJ
(May 1, 2009 - 3:10 pm)

Yes, YOU do. But - look, no offense. I KNOW you didn't mean it this way - you Catholics are great, it's just that some of your comments can be interpreted as offensive to people who are not Catholic, especially people who don't believe in God.

I respect your opinions and the opinions of everyone on here. But as I said before, religion is not at all based off fact. It's belief and opinion. That's my opinion, and that's why I think that debate was going to go around and around in circles. 

submitted by Lena G, age 11
(May 1, 2009 - 5:13 pm)

 

*sigh*

Ok. ugh, well I made a mistake by ever posting on that thread because I was going against what I've been thinking all along.

I think some of the people here (me too.) are trying to hard to prove that their faith is right. They're trying to hard to get other people to convert to their faith and in doing it have slightly bruised any good reputation that the other person had for that specific religion.

If you want someone to convert to your religion, why not do it by example? People will be more likely to consider your faith if they are inspired by your words and actions - not if you have a better side of the argument, at least not on a children's literature magazine website where most of the kids are very strong in their beliefs.

If you try too hard to get others to see that your religion is the right one, people will sometimes think that your going too far. Just look at the responses that some of you got (including me). I think we should stop the religious arguments - not because I think it's wrong to help others discern which religion is true, but because this kind of debate is not very welcome here.

I mean, for example, for all of you who are Catholic, people have already labeled you in slightly mean and inaccurate ways. (Lena, Pirocks,....) And I'm sure that those things are un true, but you should be careful about what kind of reputation you make.

submitted by --, age --, --
(May 2, 2009 - 6:40 pm)

I'm sorry if I was being mean and inaccurate. I try to be as nice as possible, but I'm sorry you took it that way, whoever you are.

submitted by Lena G, age 11
(May 3, 2009 - 5:14 pm)

Could you please let me know where I was being mean and inaccurate? That way I'll know what not to do again. Admin, please let me know if you saw me being mean and inaccurate!

Nothing I can think of, Lena. As a rule, we don't post anything that is mean or inaccurate.

Admin

submitted by Lena G, age 11
(May 3, 2009 - 6:01 pm)

The comment wasn't really pointed towards you, Lena. I think people should be more careful about what they say concerning a fragile subject like religion. Pirocks said that people who believe in God are a little stuck up I think, and you just said that Catholic's posts on religion are sometimes offending. I'm not saying what you said was mean, because it's kind of true. But what you said made it seem like you think ALL catholic's posts are a little offensive to some people, which I doubt is the case. Just little things like that. Don't worry though, you didn't say anything wrong.

submitted by --, age --, --
(May 4, 2009 - 10:54 am)

Thanks, whoever you are. (You know, if you say your name, we really won't gang up on you.) I also want to clarify that what I said about Catholics' posts wasn't that I found them offending. I more meant that they could be read as offensive. I have nothing against Catholics. I think the Chatterbox is a great place because I can be friends with people with whom I disagree. :)

submitted by Lena G, age 11
(May 4, 2009 - 5:21 pm)

Exactly, Lena. No one can lay down concrete proof that their religion is the right one. It is a matter of faith. I can't force you to belive what I do, and you can't force me to believe what you do. It is natural for everyone to feel strongly about his or her religion - after all, you're banking your whole life and the afterlife on being right in what is, again, a matter of faith - so I tend to steer clear of religion on the Chatterbox.

 

-EH

submitted by Emily H. :), age 13, Sparks, NV
(May 2, 2009 - 7:30 pm)

I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with that.

submitted by no name
(May 4, 2009 - 7:18 pm)

Well, I'm not trying to offend anyone, if that's how some of my posts have been interpreted, and I'm sorry if they have been.

submitted by Mary Jo, age Georgia, 13
(May 4, 2009 - 7:09 am)

It's okay. :)

submitted by Lena G, age 11
(May 4, 2009 - 10:52 am)

While I find them infuriating. Sorry, but the way some Christians say "We are right and you are wrong; you aren't Christian; therefore you are a sinner and will be cast into Hell for eternity" infuriates me SO MUCH! I'm Shinto/Buhddist, and I'm not going to change my religion because of a measly threat about a hell I don't believe in. I believe that when I die, I will be reborn. If I am a good person then my next life will be a good and happy one; if I am a bad person, my next life will be miserable, such as a bug that gets squashed early on in life, as opposed to a dolphin or a bird. Such are my beliefs. I do not expect others to believe them just because I do, or because I say to. I quietly believe in my beliefs without involving others, at least not intentionally. If I have offended, I do not mean to. I am just trying to express the way I feel about religion, in a peaceful way. I do not mean to offend, again, so please DON'T take this the wrong way.

submitted by Jenni , age 12, Nowhere
(May 1, 2009 - 6:22 pm)

Trust me, Jenni, not all Christians are like that. I mean, there are some, but definetly not all. I would NEVER say that to you.

submitted by Mary Jo, age 13, Georgia
(May 4, 2009 - 9:42 am)