Help. Im gonna

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Help. Im gonna

Help. Im gonna be 13 years old on Saturday.

*screams and runs around* I DONT WANNA BE 13 

submitted by Darkvine, age Help plz
(June 29, 2023 - 1:59 pm)

First off, happy (almost) birthday!! 

Second, yeah I totally see why you're upset. 13 is usually seen as a milestone because you become an "official teenager" or whatever. Milestone birthdays always feel to me like so much pressure to have fun and be excited and stuff. But honestly, you're probably not going to feel all that different when you wake up on Saturday and you're 13.
It's really not that many changes, and some of the changes there are are for the better! So I would just say try and enjoy it instead of stressing about it! 
Ofc, I'm here if you need further advice!! Happy birthday again :D
submitted by Periwinkle, age Pi, Somewhere in the stars
(June 29, 2023 - 2:32 pm)
submitted by top
(June 29, 2023 - 2:52 pm)
submitted by Top
(June 29, 2023 - 4:46 pm)

Happy early birthday!!!!!! Also yeah I totally get you. Im turning 16 in like a week and I'm so creeped out like I'm gonna be able to drive AND I'm half way to 32! I remember when I turned 13. I also did not want to be 13. But as the year went on, I realized it really isn't so bad, being a teenager. There are many things that suck about being 13 and being a teenager, but there are also a lot of really nice things! Little kids look up to you, and if you set a good example you will feel really fulfilled and accomplished. You can babysit (and if you were allowed to babysit before you can babysit later now) You get a lot more independence and you will be taken much more seriously than adults! 
Anyway Haopy birthday and I hope 13 works for you! If you ever have a hard time with teenagering, the CB will always be here for you and I'm positive everyone will listen and try to help you! :)

submitted by oldish books, where the wild things are
(June 30, 2023 - 5:26 pm)

Happy early birthday *throws eco-friendly confetti in the usual CB tradition* And, well, I know how milestone birthdays feel - I've often felt like Oh dear, but this year was so nice, and this age is so perfect, and I don't want to leave it behind forever. But what I've found is that I always feel like that; each year seems so much more wonderful than the one that's coming, and then when the coming year's over I find that it was wonderful too, and I never want to leave it. Each year is a little different from the one before, of course, but it happens gradually; just because it's your thirteenth birthday doesn't really mean you're any different from yesterday when you were twelve. Maybe there'll be new responsibilities, and new ways of thinking, and new ways of looking at the world; and there'll be good things and bad things, of course; but there will be good things, and in the end you'll probably love the year as a whole and never want to turn fourteen. Becoming a teenager is, well, a big thing, definitely; but, as I said before, your world probably won't change all at once, and in the end I think we'd all develop and change whether we measured our years or not, so "becoming a teenager" just means that you're getting older, and in the end when we "become teenagers" we've already been getting older from before.

Anyway, I hope this helps, and I hope you have a great birthday and a great year :)

submitted by Amethyst
(June 30, 2023 - 7:35 pm)

thx for the advice everyone! so far today has been really fun, even if my brother greeted me by saying "happy birthday to you, you live in a zoo, you smell like a monkey, and you look like one too."

submitted by Darkvine, age 13!!!, the ashes of Hyrule
(July 1, 2023 - 7:54 am)

are our brothers the same person?!! Mine does the EXACT same thing. Also HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

submitted by oldish books, where the wild things are
(July 1, 2023 - 10:25 am)

I always feel the same way when it's my birthday... I never want to get any older than I currently am. But in the end I always get used to it, and hopefully you will too :)

If it's becoming a teenager you're worried about - well, I know this isn't a commonly held viewpoint, but being a teenager is SUPER FUN. It really is! You get more responsibility and freedom, but you're also young enough to relax and let your parents worry about the really important and confusing stuff. You get to have new experiences, find out more about who you really are, discover new horizons, and gradually "flower" into being an adult. I think it's primarily a time of discovery, which I love about it. Of course, it won't all be easy, but there are so many good parts. The important thing is to just enjoy all the new things that come your way, and the old ones too, without worrying too much about all the traumas that teenagers are supposed, but actually don't (in my experience) have. Anyway, I hope you have a wonderful birthday!! :) *gives you a present of whatever you'd like*

submitted by Poinsettia
(July 1, 2023 - 9:25 am)

Happy birthday!

submitted by Avara, she/her
(July 1, 2023 - 12:25 pm)

Why is that something to be afraid about???

submitted by Cloud Bunny, age forever, Up in the Clouds
(July 1, 2023 - 1:20 pm)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! And I'm glad it's been a fun day so far for you! Hope it continues to be a great day! And, wow, 13 IS a big milestone, but I don't think it's all that different from being 12. But then what would I know? Anyways, instead of thinking that you're 13, maybe think that you're just eleven plus two or twelve plus one (anagrams!)? Idk if that would help. But then, I hope you'll also fully embrace being 13, bc that's pretty cool! And if you like math, 13 is: the sixth prime number, and the smallest emirp – a prime that is a different prime when reversed. It is also a Fibonacci number, a happy number, the third centered square number, and one of only 3 known Wilson Primes! 

submitted by CelineBurning Bright, age As Needed, The FireMist Sea
(July 1, 2023 - 4:51 pm)

well, mainly because 13 is such a big milestone. I'm officially a teenager now. 

submitted by Darkvine, age 13 now, Lake Hylia
(July 2, 2023 - 9:12 am)

@Darkvine that makes so much sense actually

submitted by Cloud Bunny, age forever, Up in the Clouds
(July 2, 2023 - 5:19 pm)
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(July 5, 2023 - 11:04 am)