I don't know how qualified I am to advise on this but I think it depends on what the emotional problem is and how much it actually relates to being neurodivergent. For instance if it's something like being angry at certain sounds/smells/tastes/lights and you don't think they'd aggravate a neurotypical person, then that might be something to blame on neurodivergence. But, if it's just an argument, for instance, between you and someone else that's for some sort of mundane reason like what color to paint a shared project (as a random example) then it might be something that hasn't arisen because you are neurodivergent.

Actually, no. My dad is a rabbi, not a therapist or psychologist or psychiatrist, but he does have a master's degree in "transpersonal psychology" (whatever that is) and he agrees that I'm on the spectrum. Also, I have consulted multiple resources about autism that include general symptoms of autism, including a fiction book about autism that includes "journal entries" with autism facts that I can totally relate to (i.e. demand avoidance, anxiety [going to worst-case], meltdowns that are NOT purposeful, etc.). Basically, I have backing up from a master's degree in psychology plus hours upon hours of constant research.

Oh I completely messed it up I did a quick search on transpersonal psychology it really has nothing to do with neurodiversity so scratch the part about the master's degree because I learned it really doesn't relate to the situation but I still did hours upon hours of research.